• Age of the child at the time of their trauma
• Relationship to abuser (kin or non-kin)
• Frequency of mental, physical or sexual pain inflicted
• Number of times, days, months or years abuse-brutality-torture took place
• Location where the abuse took place
• Types of abuse, brutality or torture used
• Degree of mental, physical or sexual pain inflicted
• Temporary or permanent mental, physical or sexual injury
• Forced to keep trauma a secret (in particular sexual abuse-torture)
• Became a "Chi-ult" a child-adult emotionally frozen at the age of your trauma

Mind Control, Manipulation, Brainwashing, Stockholm Syndrome

• Use of threats
• Instill fear or terror to prevent tattling or telling secret
• Idea of guilt and shame are relentlessly poured onto the child victim
• Child is blamed repeatedly
• Forced to hurt loved ones or pets
• Accomplice/participant in abuse, brutality or torture of loved ones, pets
• Threats to hurt loved ones or pets
• Witnessed what happened to others to force compliance
• Hear repeated threats of suicide to gain sympathy or complianceThrough coercion, repetition and relentless verbal assault, the child comes to believe they alone were responsible for their own abuse, brutality and/or torture
• Once the child accepts responsibility, it is their secret to keep while the perpetrator is free to find, groom and ruin new innocent children

• Still keeping the secret of abuse-torture; sexual abuse-torture
• Still being abused by the same perpetrators
• Attracted to partners who are violent; find nonviolent partners uninteresting
• When relationship is calm you find it boring; anticipate or generate conflict
• Someone you are dating is an abuser-torturer
• Thoughts of suicide entering your consciousness
• You were raised in a violent home
• You experienced incest or it was present in your home
• You experienced sexual abuse, brutality or sexual torture as a child
• Witness incest or sexual assault on family members
• Attempt suicide
• A family member pedophile who abused you committed suicide
• First taste of alcohol made you relax and removed fear for the first time
• Chemicals made you feel "normal" for the first time in your life
• Forced into sexual acts against your will
• Incest is an ongoing problem with no help in site
• Functioning at the emotional age when your early trauma took place

• Attracted to violent, verbal abusive partners
• Currently in an abusive relationship
• Children in foster care
• Unemployable due to addictions
• Failure to stay clean so children were placed in foster care and parental rights severed
• Children placed for adoption
• Repeat offender unable to move past the trauma
• Include all abuse-torture history as a teen and child
• Perpetrator ever punished or confronted?
• Addicted to chemicals or behaviors are ruining your life
• You experienced incest or it was present in your home
• You experienced sexual abuse, brutality or sexual torture as a child
• A family member pedophile who abused you committed suicide
• Still keeping childhood secrets
• A child of yours committed suicide
• Experience the same nightmare
• You were raised in a violent home
• Unable to move on past the emotional age when your early childhood trauma took place
• The pedophile who hurt you is still alive and attends family reunions
• Family members know about relative yet do nothing to prevent access to other children

• Feel extreme guilt over child raising failures
• Still an addict
• Use drugs/drink with dysfunctional offspring
• Make excuses for unemployable offspring
• You experienced incest or it was present in your home
• You experienced sexual abuse, brutality or sexual torture as a child
• A family member pedophile who abused you committed suicide
• Still keeping childhood secretsA child of yours committed suicide
• Fear offspring
• Used to abuse, brutalize or torture adult child who now does the same thing to you
• You were raised in a violent home