Last Updated on Sunday, July 04 2010 10:45 Written by Sue Friday, December 04 2009 19:39
Adoption is Child Abandonment
(Adoption is not Euphoric for Abandoned Child)
Mother Gives Up Child
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No child support
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Rape
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No ability to support child
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Wants to go to school
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No family support
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Too young
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Too old
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Too poor
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Poor health
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Mentally ill
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Not married
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Family pressure
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Boyfriend pressure
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Family shame
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Incest
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Parents hate father
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Father permanently absent
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Father in jail or prison/death row
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Product of one night stand
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and a million other reasons
Child Placed for Adoption
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Child placed for adoption by biological mother
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Given to relative no adoption takes place *(May be cultural)
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No relative would agree to adopt you
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Cultural adoption within Native American family only
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No known relatives
Locating Birth Parents
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Want to find birth parents and ask them why?
Curosity -
How do you feel?
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No interest in knowing birth parents
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High desire to meet birth parents
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Found out recently you were adopted
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Knew all your life you were adopted
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Feel abandoned; something is missin
Children in Foster Care Placed for Adoption by State
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Adopted, at birth
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Adopted, at 6 months or less
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Adopted, before 1year old
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Adopted, before 2 years old
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Adopted, before 5 years old
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Adopted, before 10 years old
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Adopted, after 10 years old
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Never adopted
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Adoption, voluntary
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Adopted, from foster care
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Adopted, involuntary
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Adoption records sealed
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Adoption, closed
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Adoption, open
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Orphaned
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Parents are addicts
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Abandoned at birth
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Child born addicted; removed at birth
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Removed when parent's) were incarcerated
Adoptive Home (It is based solely on the feelings of the adopted child)
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Makes no difference
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Loving adopted home
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Abusive adopted home
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Abusive adopted parents
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Addicted adopted parents
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Violent adopted parents
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Adopted parents fight, divorce and end up hating each other
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Sexual abuse takes place in adoptive home
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Adopted child kicked out of home
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Adopted child given back to state
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Wonderful and loving home
Homosexual Adoptive Home
- Sexual orientation of parents makes no difference
- Does make a difference
- Teased by peers
- Friends parents wouldn't allow sleep overs
- How does the adoptive child feel
- Adopted as an infant or toddler
- Adopted as a 5 year old or older
- Was there sexual confusion as to role models
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