• Parents fight over visitation
• Fight over days of weekly visits
• Fight over holidays
• Medical insurance
• Who has what clothes at what house
• Who bought the child more stuff
• Who love the child more
• Which one takes care of the child more
• Provides the best home, vacations, material possessions

Child Care

• When child visits non custodial parent she is left with baby sitter
  Step parent or most recent person they are living with is the child care giver
  Child care giver of either parent is a boyfriend/girlfriend which rotates frequently
  Quality of visit is judged by the gifts given, even if the parent is off on a business trip
  Non custodial parent is at the bar all the time
  Non custodial parent is drinking and boozing so child is not allowed around them
  Boozing parent is a successful businessman/woman who is an alcoholic or known drug addict
  Parents talk bad about the other parent to the child
  Child hates going to the non custodial parent
  Child is forced by the court and being too young to have a say in court to give their preference
  Child is forced to choose one parent over the other
  Child  is acutely aware of the behavior changes when a parent is drinking or using drugs
  Parents make each other miserable but only hurt the innocent child who loves them both
  Child knows that money and expensive presents are in order if they tolerate the addiction

Child Torture

• Child is forced to say they hate the other parent
  Child is forced to hit the other parent
  Child is forced to spy on parent and report back
  Child is forced to say mean things to parent's new partner
  Child is forced to choose out loud which parent they want to live with
  Child is punished severely if they don't choose most powerful parent
  Child is mentally twisted by one or both parents
  Child is told the other parent is dead
  Child is taken to underground network and hidden
  Child is forced to live with convicted pedophile parent
  Child is forced to visit abusive parent
  Child is forced to live with parent who killed mother

Child Used as Weapon

• Hides child to punish parent
  Child is kidnapped by other parent
  Child is taken out of state and never heard from again
  Disappears with children so custodial parent has no idea where children are
  Takes kids from school without permission
  Allows or encourages kids to hit or kick parent
  Makes children target of violence to punish spouse
  Makes Mom watch as he punishes or injures child for what she has reportedly done or not done